Tuesday, January 29, 2013

that time when sean disappointed me

sean in blue...

Wednesday 7:47pm
about dinner at ashleys last thursday:
i couldnt help but overhear bits of your conversation with the other men at the table. what i heard was very sexually explicit and given that you were in a public place, with coworkers, female colleagues within earshot, and at the same table with your boss and your elders, i found your story telling very inappropriate and offensive. Next time, please save such stories when hanging out with your friends at someone's house.
The only thing i find more disgusting than your dinner conversation was the fact that none of the men at the table thought to tell you that maybe you should stop talking. I am really angry and disappointed. I hope that i never have to feel this way about you ever again. Please next time think before you speak.

While i am.sorry u found sone of the things i said offensive i am sorry. but to single.mebout as rhe only one.doing it is also a offense. while we.did talk about.some horrible.th8ngs i also talked about.how women in this.country get treated. i.was not.the only one say things. i am sorry u were offended but if u have.a.problem please let.me.know at.the.time.so.i.can fix.the.problem.
Thursday 6:33pm
i didnt say i found some of the things you said offensive. i said what i overheard was offensive. i couldnt tell you at the time because i was too confused and angry. im telling you now, in hopes that in the future, what bits i did overhear are not bits of conversation you will have again while in public with your coworkers. do you want a cookie in claiming balance that you talked about how awful women are treated in this country? i dont have one for you.

Today  7:14am
to be clear: i really like "first met sean," who helped me figure out my tv. I really like "opened my door" sean, who helped me get into my apartment when i was locked out and couldnt get the key to fit/turn, and i really liked "golden bell" sean, who tried to make sure the kids had fun at camp. i was not prepared for the sean i overheard at ashleys. im sorry i came off so aggressive in my prior msgs, but i was angry b/c the sean i know can do so much better.

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